Why “I’m too busy to meditate” isn’t a good excuse

Saying you can’t meditate because your mind is too busy is like saying you can’t work out because you’re too out of shape. It makes no sense, but is often the number one excuse a new student gives a meditation teacher.

If you’ve got goals for your physical health and fitness, it is inevitable that, at some point, they will also include inspiring, attainable, and manageable goals around your mental and emotional health. Yet often the same distractions and sabotage patterns (that same little voice inside that criticizes and judges) keep us from sitting quietly to take a good look at our thoughts, to feel what we feel, and to simply just be.

There will be many good reasons to not want to start a sitting practice of mindfulness. It’s boring, unproductive, uncomfortable, too loud inside the mind – those are all common complaints. What is important when starting a regular meditation practice is to first figure out what you want.

What do you really want to feel and experience in your life right now? Greater clarity on your life’s path, more ease in your relationships, more self-acceptance, maintaining a more even emotional state? These are examples of a few good ‘wants’ that practicing being present can help you with. When the benefits and the experience of meditation practice are greater than the discomfort actually doing it, then you will have a better chance at committing.

Why meditation is worth the effort:

• Improved ability to respond to stress

• Lower blood pressure

• Lower anxiety and depression

• Improved immune system function

• Choosing more healthful thoughts

• Better management of strong emotions

• Increased energy levels and focus

• More restful sleep

• Heightened creativity

• Heightened intuition and decision-making powers

The practice of presence is learning to be okay with whatever thoughts or emotions arise, learning to meet these with less judgment and gradually growing comfortable simply observing what is occurring. The more time someone commits to being present to what is and allowing what is to simply be without needing to change it, the greater amount of resilience and true choice will open to them, and improves their ability to adapt, learn, grow and change with life.

Try this 1-minute meditation from Ally to start your commitment to the present moment:

Steps to starting a practice of presence:

• Begin by dedicating three to five minutes a few mornings a week when you first wake to simply sitting. Set a timer.

• Close your eyes, observe your breath and observe your mind/thoughts without judgment. When they arise, let them; when the thoughts drift, let them.

• Each time your mind pulls/moves/distracts, feel the breath fully. Feeling the breath you’re currently on, fully, will always bring you back into being present.

• When you feel yourself in presence, or being very attentive momentarily, observe the silence. Know that this will change, and when it does, repeat the above again.

• End this exercise with 30 seconds of gratitude.

• And when you’re ready to discover more, head to Meditations & Sleep in the Explore section of Centr – where you’ll find meditations to guide you through many different scenarios.